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Hawaii’s appeal for girl-girl or bride and bride wedding goes beyond its postcard-perfect beaches and volcanic vistas. Since the Hawaii Marriage Equality Act passed on November 13, 2013, signed by Governor Neil Abercrombie, the state has embraced same-sex couples with open arms. The law took effect on December 2, 2013, and by April 2025, thousands of LGBTQ+ gay wedding couples—including many lesbian pairs—have tied the knot here. The state’s history as a pioneer in the marriage equality movement, sparked by the 1993 Baehr v. Lewin case, adds a layer of significance for couples seeking a meaningful destination.

Two women in white dresses and pink leis smile at each other. They're standing in front of vibrant flowers, with a sunny background. — Two brides share a joyful moment, adorned in matching white gowns and vibrant floral leis, against the backdrop of a sunlit garden.

A joyful wedding embrace on a scenic beach, framed by lush mountains and palm trees.

On a sun-drenched beach with the Pacific Ocean whispering in the background, two brides stood hand in hand, their white dresses fluttering in the warm Hawaiian breeze. It’s a scene that’s become increasingly common in the Aloha State since same-sex marriage was legalized here in 2013, making Hawaii a beacon of love and equality. For lesbian couples dreaming of a wedding that blends romance, natural beauty, and cultural richness, Hawaii offers an unparalleled backdrop—and a heartfelt welcome.

Bride and bride newlyweds smiling, taking a selfie at a beach wedding. One holds a phone, the other a bouquet of colorful flowers. Bright, joyful atmosphere. — Two brides capture a joyful selfie under a floral archway on their wedding day, radiating happiness and love.

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Hawaii’s journey to becoming a same-sex wedding hotspot began decades ago. In 1993, the Baehr v. Lewin case saw the state Supreme Court rule that barring same-sex marriage might violate equal protection, igniting a national debate. Though a 1998 amendment stalled progress by reserving marriage for opposite-sex couples, the Hawaii Marriage Equality Act of 2013, signed by Governor Neil Abercrombie, flipped the script. Effective December 2, 2013, it opened the door to all couples. By November 2024, voters erased the old amendment entirely, making Hawaii’s commitment to love official. Today, in April 2025, the state is a top pick for gay grooms seeking beauty and acceptance.

For Alex and Kai, the day was a mix of personal touches and island flair. Both wore tailored linen shirts—Alex in white, Kai in a pale blue that matched the ocean—rolled up at the sleeves for that relaxed Hawaiian vibe. A slack-key guitarist played a soulful “Hawaiian Wedding Song” as they walked down the aisle, hand in hand. Their officiant, a local kahu (priest), blessed them with a chant invoking the ancestors and the sea, a nod to Kai’s Native Hawaiian roots.